I’ve always been shy.and felt like I was on the outside looking in. It became commonplace for me to be unobtrusive, quiet, and try to blend into the background. I watched how people talked, how they dressed, how they walked. Then I discovered how interesting people were to watch. How people hold themselves, how they posture, reveal a lot about who they are and how they think. Does she wear pierced earrings, or pierced eyebrows or nose? Or does he? Dress or jeans? Too tight, or baggy? Makeup, or made up? Tatoos, or purple hair? Are they standing with arms crossed, holding themselves tightly, or head back and tilted, chest and pelvis thrust forward? Watching people and their body language is a fun and interesting way to pass the time. Try it sometime.